You are love. You are that flow that seems to come from somewhere else. You are that. You don’t need anything or anyone to experience it. It’s already yours. Love can never be lost. You can never be excluded from love. You are it. You are the inclusion itself.
Don’t look for outside objects for your love. Learn to cultivate it on your own. When you believe you need an outside object for your love then you are at its mercy and you become powerless. But love is power, which means you become loveless the moment you give your love away to an outside object. Whatever that object does or doesn’t do will affect you and imprison you. That’s the opposite of love.
Allow objects to remind you of your love. Look for beauty and appreciation. That's what you do with objects. Allow them to remind you of what you already have. Allow them to point in the direction of your love.
The outside object is objective. It doesn’t have anything to do with love per se. Love is subjective. You have just developed a habit of placing love on specific things outside yourself. When you are what you truly are regardless of everything then love will happen everywhere you go.
Don’t look for the object. Look in the other direction or behind it. That is where you find yourself, your love, your freedom. That is where you find the other, inside you, in your heart as one. When you set yourself free, you set the object free. And that is love, what we are and what we want to be.